Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Should I go back and try to be friends with a girl that is in love with her ex?

To make a long story short, I realized that I had strong feelings for my stylist that had cut my hair for the last 7 years. We were discussing relationships and before I could admit my feelings for her she tells me she is still in love with her ex and that she wants to get back with him. Needless to say, I was devastated, but I did not say anything at the time.



I realized I could not hold my feelings back and wrote her a long letter telling her how I felt. She texted me back telling me she was flattered by my letter but that she could not get over her ex and really wanted to get back with him. Still devastated, I left her a voice mail telling her that I was going to be better off not seeing her again.



Thing is, I really cannot get over her. Songs on the radio and other things keep reminding me of her. Should I still stay away completely or should I swallow my pride and go back to her even though I know she will likely never return my feelings for her?



Should I go back and try to be friends with a girl that is in love with her ex?

You will be wasting your time if you go back. It will only do you harm. You'd be better off going forward and looking for someone who is available.



Should I go back and try to be friends with a girl that is in love with her ex?

get a new stylist



Should I go back and try to be friends with a girl that is in love with her ex?

Just stay away from her... you can do better. She is really pathetic if she is still in love with her ex (it took me like a week to get over my ex)



Just keep busy, and meet new people.



Should I go back and try to be friends with a girl that is in love with her ex?

You've already said more than enough and she's already made it plain that she's not into you.



Do yourself a favor and get over her by dating other gurlz.



Should I go back and try to be friends with a girl that is in love with her ex?

Leave her alone... try to get over it. Easier said than done.



Even if you do get her, you have to ask yourself if you want to be in a relationship with someone whose heart is not entirely yours.

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